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Abuse comes in many forms - You Can Get Help, more importantly, you can help yourself, whether you are abused or doing the abusing.
Why do some people pick on others who are smaller than they are? Why do they find it necessary to be violent? What is the concept behind abuse? Is there a thought in mind when abusers are beating on their victims? Does this justify abuse in their minds? Do the abusers think they are actually doing something positive for the person they are debasing, or, does it simply make them feel like a better person because they can beat someone up so badly that they beat them into the ground? Is it being taught a lesson to be beat up? If the shoe was on the other foot, would the abusee thank their abuser for teaching them a lesson? Were the abusers actually abused when they were little? Two wrongs don't make a right. If this is the case, the abuser would then be classified as a person who needs help; someone who is not in control of themselves; someone who loses their temper, and flies out of control, and who is a threat to the civilized world. They should be behind bars! Whether the abuser was abused themselves, this is exactly the case. They need help.
No one, No one, has the right to lay a hand on another person, not even parents, and especially not teachers. I'm familiar with the old school practice of spanking children to make them behave. Normal parents, with normal mindsets, perhaps achieved setting their children straight with a paddling, however, in todays world, there are too many neurotic people walking around, who lose their tempers and take out their frustrations on their children, or anyone else who happens to get in their way.
You have to be a sicko to even think about hurting a little child, what's more, you have to be a pretty selfish person, to beat a child who adores you.
I am dedicating this Web page to all those people who are or who have been abused in one way or another, and I will try to address the many types of abuse, in order to let each and every one of us recognize the abuser from the eyes of the person who is being abused. Click on the links below to read further.
Once upon a time,
His parents weren't happy,
They nagged and yelled and beat him too,
By eleven the boy was so distraught
He went to Heaven, and St. Peter said,
St. Peter opened the gates, and said,
They want their way,
The children, they suffer, the innocent die.
What monsters to subject their children to this;
They think that they're hiding
Their judgement will be;
For everytime you hurt my little ones,
You did this to Me...
So parents live up to this name meaning love